For me it's the argument that it's "not okay" if the people are friends, not enough somehow. Like the relationship is somehow incomplete unless there's a romantic, sexual aspect to it. And for me the romantic/sexual aspect does change the relationship, to be sure, and is an added facet to the love you might feel for a person but it doesn't make the relationship necessarily "better". It doesn't make the relationship more complete, if that makes sense.
I love it when a story manages to portray a good friendship, but man, it's so rare.
(hmm lj keeps asking me for capchas even though i'm logged in...weird!)
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Date: 2014-05-22 04:52 am (UTC)I love it when a story manages to portray a good friendship, but man, it's so rare.
(hmm lj keeps asking me for capchas even though i'm logged in...weird!)