Hmm, yeah -- I am so all over the place with canons that it's hard for me to say that I'm always there for the canon more than the fic. And then, even with canons I absolutely love, I will often spend so much more time with fic, both reading and writing it. But then canons I love I will be centering the fic more around...yeah, mostly it's hard for me to directly compare them.
Hurt/comfort usually, heavy on the comfort, please and thank you.
Heeeeeeeeee (my ration of h to c is tilting SO much harder to the c now and I don't know why, whether it's because I'm getting older, or just, well, the world is so crap, we need more warmth and kindness...!)
And oh, no, the "trash" thing wasn't you! You were just one voice of many who were unhappy enough with it that it just isn't worth it for me. Words are words for a reason, and if many of the people I'm talking to are not hearing the same word as I do when I speak, it's not worth it for me to keep saying it. And I do have peeps who I share that fanning style with too (I admit that I wish I had a few more, because lovingly mocking is really one of my favorite ways to fan, but it's such a delicate balance for me, like, mocking without the love isn't fun for me either...)
I'm so glad to be discussing things like this too! I should do more random fandom meta even when not vaguely addressing wank, it's so much more fun than that :P
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Date: 2019-11-21 06:47 am (UTC)Hurt/comfort usually, heavy on the comfort, please and thank you.
Heeeeeeeeee (my ration of h to c is tilting SO much harder to the c now and I don't know why, whether it's because I'm getting older, or just, well, the world is so crap, we need more warmth and kindness...!)
And oh, no, the "trash" thing wasn't you! You were just one voice of many who were unhappy enough with it that it just isn't worth it for me. Words are words for a reason, and if many of the people I'm talking to are not hearing the same word as I do when I speak, it's not worth it for me to keep saying it. And I do have peeps who I share that fanning style with too (I admit that I wish I had a few more, because lovingly mocking is really one of my favorite ways to fan, but it's such a delicate balance for me, like, mocking without the love isn't fun for me either...)
I'm so glad to be discussing things like this too! I should do more random fandom meta even when not vaguely addressing wank, it's so much more fun than that :P