I've had a theory for a while that there are two fundamental types of fans - the intellectual/analytical kind, and the emotional kind, and major fan conflict and wank can arise when these two types interact, because they approach fanning differently, and therefore have a difficult time understanding where a fan of the other type is coming from.
( in which I go on for entirely too long about intellectual vs emotional fanning )
( in which I go on for entirely too long about intellectual vs emotional fanning )